MCCCLIX. We tend to fall in love with people we spend time with. Therefore, decide whether she might be a suitable person to fall in love with before deciding to spend time with her, not after.
MCCCLX. She is suitable to fall in love with if she is good person to marry and raise a family with.
MCCCLXI. She is a good person to marry and raise a family with if she is a prudent and virtuous person, loves and is wise about children, and could faithfully love you too.
Women, change “she” and “her” to “he” and “him.” Everything else is the same.